During the holiday season, it’s common to feel some gift-giving
paralysis. You may already be worrying about how your loved ones will react if your present doesn’t hit the mark. Though good gift-giving may feel like an impossible feat, it is not as difficult as you think to give someone a present they’ll treasure.
The core of gift-giving is understanding the person who will be receiving your gift. People have unique personalities and varied expectations when it comes to presents. Though some would love a surprise, others would prefer to help select it. Some people may appreciate an expensive gift over a practical gift and vice versa. The type of present you choose should depend on them, not your own preferences.
You may feel like a store-bought gift is impersonal, but, if you know them well enough, you may know if there’s a new video game or book that they’ve been looking forward to. If your friend is a gamer, you might pick the latest release in their favorite series or a collectible from the game. For book lovers, consider a signed edition or a book by their favorite author along with a cozy blanket. Pair that with some other trinkets, such as key chains, tech gadgets, and board games that they like. Everyone loves feeling seen and your gift should reflect that.
However, if you aren’t sure about the person’s preferences, you can try to make the entire present yourself or add onto a store-bought gift with your creation. Even if they don’t love it, they’ll feel honored that you put the time and effort into making it.
This is where you can utilize your talents. If you’re a baker, bake them a treat. If you can knit or crochet, create handmade crafts. However, you don’t need any specific talent to look up tutorials on cute crafted paper flowers or animals. You can make personalized touches to your handmade gifts to make them even more memorable. Bake them the cookies you know they love and add references to their favorite show in frosting. Base the colors of the scarf you’re knitting on the hoodie they wear religiously. Those intimidated by the idea of crafting a present should keep in mind that the simplest of personalized gifts can be meaningful. For example, during a last-minute rush, I created small cards with drawings of when my friend and I first met and little things I know about her. Wrap up your present with a card and a heartfelt message.
At the end of the day, gifts are just a way of appreciating the people you love. Whether it’s a thoughtful store-bought item or a handcrafted treasure, the effort you put into understanding and celebrating your loved ones is what truly matters. Have fun, show them you care, and you’ll find that the perfect gift isn’t hard to find at all.